In Part 1, we addressed the emotional harm, false hope, and toxic dynamics perpetuated by the twin flame concept. But there’s more to uncover. For years, I was known as a Twin Flame guru—someone people came to for advice, guidance, and reassurance on this very topic. And for a long time, I believed it too. I was deeply entrenched in the teachings and the illusion. But my intent in sharing all of this now is because, after years of promoting it, God/Spirit led me to the truth: the twin flame narrative is a deception created by the dark forces of the world to keep people in suffering.
What breaks my heart the most is seeing how many people are caught in this web of confusion, pain, and longing—unaware that they’re being manipulated. So, I am writing this not to attack anyone’s beliefs, but to share the evidence and help others break free from this spiritual trap. I’ve walked away from it all because the truth is clear to me now, and my mission is to help others see through the illusion and step into a life of clarity, emotional freedom, and healthy, lasting love.
The Twin Flame Deception: A Tool of Control
At the heart of this deception is the idea that the twin flame relationship is meant to be difficult, painful, and filled with suffering—that it’s part of a higher purpose or divine mission. The narrative convinces people that enduring emotional turmoil is not only necessary but spiritually significant. But let’s be honest: pain and manipulation are not signs of spiritual growth, they are signs of control.
When you’re told that the rollercoaster of emotional highs and lows is “meant to be,” you’re much more likely to tolerate it. You start making excuses for emotional abuse, for abandonment, for constant uncertainty. You endure it because you believe that it’s all part of a greater cosmic plan. But that’s where the deception lies. It’s not a plan designed by the Divine; it’s a trap set by forces that profit from your suffering, keeping you from finding real love and true happiness.
Why Share the Evidence?
The evidence for twin flames is nonexistent. As I’ve shared before, this is a concept that gained traction in modern spiritual movements, not one grounded in historical or psychological fact. The more I studied and reflected, the more I realized there’s no real truth behind it. It’s built on vague ideas, and much of it is wishful thinking. And yet, despite the lack of evidence, it has become an industry, with countless people profiting off the vulnerability and heartbreak of others.
As someone who spent years promoting this belief, I know how powerful the narrative can be. I also know the damage it causes. When I finally saw the truth for what it was, I had to walk away. And I believe I was led to this truth for a reason: to help others break free. I can’t stand to see people suffer in this way any longer. My heart aches when I see how many are still trapped in the illusion, chasing after a fantasy that only brings them pain.
A Spiritual Manipulation
What’s even more insidious is how twin flames are tied into spiritual manipulation. The idea that you are destined for one person who is often unavailable or emotionally distant encourages people to stay in unhealthy situations. It’s a way of keeping people disempowered—constantly seeking something outside of themselves for completion.
This narrative also discourages people from moving on, healing, and finding real love. Instead, they are stuck waiting, hoping, and often spiritually bypassing the real work they need to do on themselves. The twin flame concept can even prevent people from recognizing when a relationship is toxic, abusive, or simply not serving their highest good.
What the Divine Actually Wants for Us
If you are on a spiritual journey, you likely know that love is meant to be pure, supportive, and nurturing. The Divine does not want you to suffer. God/Spirit wants you to thrive in relationships that are based on mutual respect, growth, and love—not chaos and confusion.
The twin flame narrative goes against the essence of what a healthy, spiritually guided relationship should be. It takes the focus away from personal healing and growth and places it on a relationship that often keeps people in turmoil. It convinces people that their happiness lies in another person when, in truth, the Divine wants us to find peace, love, and wholeness within ourselves first.
A Call for Freedom
If you’ve been drawn into the twin flame concept, I urge you to take a step back and evaluate what’s really happening. Are you growing in this dynamic, or are you just holding on, hoping things will get better? Are you being told to endure pain in the name of spiritual growth, or are you being empowered to create the kind of love you deserve?
I started the Awakened Souls Dating and Relationships group to help people break free from these harmful narratives and build relationships that are based on truth, not illusions. We now have over 100,000 members working together to foster connections that are healthy, real, and lasting. And I created this forum category to share the evidence, so you don’t have to go through the same pain and confusion I did.
This post is just the beginning. In the posts to come, I will continue to share the evidence, experiences, and insights that reveal the twin flame concept for what it really is: a deception by the dark forces of the world, designed to keep you in suffering and confusion. My intent is to help you break free, so you can finally experience the true love and happiness that the Divine wants for you.
With love and clarity,
Ryan Jordan
Founder, Awakened Souls Dating and Relationships