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If you're just lurking in a dating group and never posting, commenting, or engaging, your odds of finding a partner are exactly zero. Not low. Not slim. Zero. No one can connect with someone who doesn’t exist in their awareness. You’re a ghost, and ghosts don’t date. Why Lurking Kills Your Chances 1. No Visibility = No Connections If no one knows you exist, they can’t be interested in you. Dating (especially in a group setting) is about connection, interaction, and energy exchange. If you never post, comment, or react, you’re basically invisible. 2. No Energy Investment = No Attraction Relationships require energy—if you’re just consuming but not contributing, you’re not generating any attraction. Imagine walking into a social event, standing in the corner without saying a word, and expecting someone to approach you. Not likely. 3. No Reciprocity = No Relationship People connect with those who show up and engage. If you don’t comment, like, or respond to posts, you're not giving anyone a reason to reach out or notice you. 4. No Risk = No Reward Lurking is a passive strategy, and passive strategies don’t work in dating. You have to put yourself out there—whether that’s through posts, comments, or direct messages. How to Increase Your Odds (Without Being Overwhelming) If you’re hesitant to post, start with small interactions: ✅ Comment on posts that resonate with you. ✅ React to posts (even an emoji can start a conversation). ✅ Reply to comments—it makes you more visible. ✅ Post occasionally—even if it’s just a thought, quote, or question. ✅ DM people naturally—if a comment exchange flows well, take it to DMs. Bottom Line? If you’re lurking, you’re missing out. Engagement = attraction. Put yourself in the game. Even small steps dramatically increase your chances of finding a partner. But if you just sit there and scroll, waiting for love to magically find you, you’ll be waiting forever.

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